A girl shared how she is only attracted to toxic guys who mistreat her
Here is the story
I am only attracted to toxic guys, it scares me.
I just lose all attraction to a boy when I realize he isn’t obsessed with me. If he isn’t watching me all the time, thinking about me, literally plastering photos of me on his wall and writing notes on my mannerisms.
I love the possessive-ness too. Just deciding for me that I will date him and it’s not up to me.
I know its wrong, I even broke up with my last boyfriend because he DID do these things, but god I secretly loved it so much.
I loved being coddled and treated like i was incapable, like I was a piece of property. It was like I didn’t have to think or work anymore, someone else did it all for me.
The second I realize nobody is stalking me I fall into a spiral. I am severely attached to this!
Netizens’ comments
- I remember one of my exes broke up with me and she told me she is still in love with her ex. He used to make her sit and wait for him in the car while he goes to the bar to watch the game. He even punched her in the face and threw her out of a moving car and she ended up getting a restraining order against him. I treated her like a princess and was never more in love. I took extra shifts at work to be able to buy her more gifts and take her to fancy restaurants. In the end, she left me to get back with him
Some people are just like that and as you said it comes from a deep place and cannot be explained. My advice is to try and talk to someone professional before it’s too late.
- Well this is how you end up dead lmfao