A girl shared how she “can’t believe” that she became a third party in someone else’s relationship and that she feels miserable.
Here is the story:
“Can’t believe this but I ended up as a third party of someone else relationship.
I allow someone who’s attached to date me out, and I allow myself to sink into this.
Every single day I feel miserable thinking I am a bad person, but yet I find myself being so intellectually and emotionally attached which is so hard to come by.
I am completely wrecked.”
Editor’s note: Well no arguments there, you deserve to feel wrecked for ruining someone else’s relationship.
Netizen’s two cents
A netizen commented on the girl’s post with some words of advice:
“You are indeed what you think you are, if you carry on this relationship.
Are you waiting for him to give up his official relationship to be with you? If you are willing to be underground, why should he make a choice when he can enjoy both worlds or even a third willing one if one comes along?
If this guy can two time you and the other girl, he can do this even if he really leaves that girl “for you”. And it will never be “for you”, it will always be “for him”.
He is a downright jerk and you allowed him to be one.
He will be everything you want him to be, for you to feel the “intellectual and emotional” connection, because he does not need to commit to you at all and there’s no reality that he needs to deal with and with you, he can be the oppa and be the romantic lover you think you need.
You have some conscience to feel miserable but not enough conscience to get yourself out of this ditch.
I can only hope that he is not married and you’re not breaking up a marriage, or even a family with kids.”