not a positive post. i am expecting people to burn me although my life is already shit to begin with so whatever, i need to get this off my chest.
throughout my whole life i have been hearing things like it is wayyyy easier for girls to chase guys than for guys to chase girls. i have also witness it many times. the girls are rather average but extroverted and usually the guys are more good looking than them. the guys typically are those wimpy ones that don’t dare to approach girls.
anyway a few months back, i had nothing against wimpy guys or daring girls.
but i was only after i got rejected by a wimp (i do not even think he is out of my league). i cant help but to feel very bitter whenever i see other girls successfully chased a guy.
(can already anticipate what commenters will say. prolly things along the line that i must be ugly, who am i to judge that those proactive girls, i am so bitter i deserve to be forever alone)
all i can say is that love is really about luck. you can be totally worthless and someone will still want you.
and those people who are lucky will only know how to say stuff like, oh you have to put yourself out there. do you know putting yourself out there just prolongs the suffering? i guess u wont because things just come easy for you.