It was only three days ago that I thought I had found the man of my dreams – he was handsome, funny, and had a great career.
We had only been dating for a few weeks, but already I felt like I had known him for years. Little did I know that a few days later, I would be breaking up with him.
It all started on a regular night out with my friends. We were at a bar, having a good time and catching up on the latest news. We had been there for a while when my date walked in. He was even more handsome than I remembered and I was instantly smitten.
We spent the night talking, laughing, and dancing. It was the perfect night, and I couldn’t help but think that this was the start of something special. When it came time to leave, he asked me to come over to his place. I agreed, and we made plans for later that night.
I had never been to his apartment before, so I was a bit nervous. When I arrived, he greeted me with a hug and showed me around. We had a few drinks and then moved to the bedroom.
What happened next was the worst experience of my life. After a few minutes of foreplay, he was finished. I couldn’t believe it – he had only lasted for three minutes. I was embarrassed and felt like a fool.
I tried to brush it off and tell myself it was no big deal, but the more I thought about it, the more I felt like I had been taken advantage of. I knew I had to end things with him, but I was scared of what he would say.
When I finally mustered up the courage to break it off, he was surprisingly understanding. He apologized and said he was embarrassed too. We hugged and said our goodbyes.
Breaking up with him was one of the hardest things I’ve ever had to do, but I knew it was the right thing to do. I was tired of feeling like I was the only one putting effort into the relationship, and I deserved more than three minutes of pleasure.
Since then, I’ve been reflecting on the situation and learning from it. I’ve realized that I need to set better boundaries in my relationships and not settle for anything less than I deserve. I’ve also learned that communication is key – if something isn’t working, it’s better to talk it out than to just suffer in silence.
Breaking up with my date after only three days was a difficult decision, but it was the right one. I’m glad I had the strength to stand up for myself, and I’m confident that I’ll be able to find someone who will treat me the way I deserve.