When I was in Uni, I thought I had found the love of my life.
We had been dating for over a year. We had many great times together, and I felt like he truly understood me.
But, unfortunately, things took a turn for the worse when I discovered his grossest habit.
It all started when I was in the bathroom showering and the door suddenly opened.
My boyfriend suddenly ran in and said that he had to take a dump. There was another toilet in his house which was unoccupied but he had to come in the same toilet I was using.
I was so disgusted by the smell of his ‘pang sai’ and the fact that there was an empty toilet available but he still chose to ‘pang sai’ in front of me that I quickly changed and left the bathroom.
I was shaking with anger and humiliation. How could he do something like this without even thinking about it? Couldn’t he see how wrong and disrespectful it was to me?
I decided to confront him about it the next day. I asked him why he would do something like that. He said he didn’t think it was a big deal.
I was so mad at him. I couldn’t believe he thought it was okay to take a dump in the same toilet I was in. I told him it was completely unacceptable and I was done with him. We broke up that day.
I know it sounds silly, but I could not get over the fact that he did that.
It showed me that he had no respect for me or my boundaries. I felt like he didn’t care about me at all and this was the final straw.
I know some people might think it was an overreaction, but I had to stand up for myself.
I wanted to be with someone who respected me and my boundaries so I had to let him go.
Breaking up with someone is never easy, but sometimes it’s necessary.
I learned that it’s important to be with someone who respects you, even if it means ending a relationship.
You should never settle for anything less than that.