My ex cheated on me mid last year after 10 months of emotional manipulation, gaslighting and verbal abuse despite my constant understanding and love. I gave up everything and let him tear down my confidence and mental health only for him to cheat on me, block me on social media and leave me crying begging outside his house. I was stupid.
He owns a car but never liked picking me up or sending me home (he only lived 10 minutes away from me), he has a stable job and has quite a bit of free time but never liked meeting me more than once a week, even that one date is like a short 2-4 hours. Fast forward to today, I am happily attached to a man who loves me, doesn’t own a car but will fetch me from my house for every date, always wants to spend time with me and showers me with gifts (even the smallest ones like a cup of my favourite coffee, or a note with a cheesy pick-up line).
Guess what? My ex unblocked me, followed me back on my socials and even messaged me with an apology. I haven’t posted a single pic of my current bf on my socials so he probably thinks I’m single so I decided to just play around with him a little cos it’s funny that he’s texting me so earnestly now after being able to ignore my message for weeks on end.
Asked me how I was and kept following up with questions even when my answers were short as hell like “yeah haha” “oh ya” “okay ah” “ohhh”, after one full day, I got tired of replying him and deleted the chat, ghosting him and posted a pic of my bf and I on igstory for him to see. Feeling like a bad bitch but feel kinda bad too lmao Moral of the story: Guys, if you don’t cherish your girl now, she’ll become someone else’s and you’ll no longer have a spot in her heart.
If you love someone, stay loyal and don’t even think of doing anything funny. Not just for guys, but girls too. If you gonna get into a relationship, take it seriously and don’t fool around getting up to monkey business only to regret it later. Have some morals and treat your bf/gf right please.