How do u find peace with a rs that ended years ago
My first relationship ended more than 10 years ago. It had ended quite badly but we are now each with our separate partners married/engaged.
But I keep having dreams of him and us. Always not together (like back in a relationship) but in a weird kinda situation – like his partner is away, we are interacting together, just the 2 of us… I don’t have these dreams every night but frequent enough for me to remember them and often waking up with a dull ache in my heart.
Obviously, we are not in contact anymore but I can see his socials and know bits of how he’s doing. Would contacting/ meeting up with him be able to break off these chain of dreams? I had a bf after him before my husband, but that break-up didn’t traumatize me as much.
These dreams are kinda sweet but are nightmares when I wake up. They keep bothering me.
Here are what netizens think:
- imho, if you feel that meeting up with him would bring you peace, you may or may not be right. Does he even want to meet you?
- Why are you keep stalking on his social media? Why didn’t you block him and move on? How to get peace if you sub-consciously didn’t want to let him go? You have funny/fantasies dreams because you ask for it, period!
- If ur partner has tbis same situation, what would u like him to do? Then u hav ur and.
- Unfriend and block him. Move on to a happier life doing the things that you love while working towards financial freedom. Good luck