I caught my BF looking up for ‘chicken’ while I was out of town.
He googled for them and also followed one on social media
I have been out of town and I recently found out my bf was researching for ‘chicken’ and followed one on his social media.
He at first lied and said he didn’t even know she was a ‘chicken’ and he just followed her because he was curious.
After I kept asking him over and over, he finally admitted he was looking up ‘chicken’ in our area and got curious to see what one looked like, so he followed her on his personal social media account.
He claims he had no intention of doing anything inappropriate.
I should add that we have not been having s- at all. He doesn’t want to with me hardly ever. This has been an ongoing problem for months and he claims he has an issue with low testosterone.
He’s saying he was just fantasizing about getting with a ‘chicken’ and took it too far.
How do I handle this situation?
Here are what netizens think
- Sounds like he’s not interested in you anymore and doesn’t have the balls to just say it. At least in an intimate manner.
People do this crazy thing where the idea of being honest with a partner and hurting them seems way way scarier than doing sneaky shit in secret and hoping they don’t get caught, which is objectively way worse and can easily make the partner feel more terrible than if they just were honest.
How you caught him may or may not be unethical (you didn’t specify) but the cat’s out of the bag and now you two need to figure out what you both actually want here and if there are needs not being met and unable to be met it’s time to seriously consider the relationship. - Could be curiosity gone too far, it really could. The fact that he told you so makes me think that it was and that there was no real intention of doing beyond that