I just caught my boyfriend making out with his guy best friend
Throwaway because I may honestly delete this. All names are fake but honestly if he finds this I honestly wouldn’t care.
I’m 20, my (ex) boyfriend (Jacob) is 21. His friend (Jace) is 20. They have been best friends sincE school. I’ve been dating Jacob for about a year and half at this point.
I went out with friends last night and my boyfriend had said that Jace was coming over to “chill”. I was fine with that, hadn’t been the first time he had come over. Well one of my friends had ended up in a pretty bad fight so we all left early. I didn’t tell my boyfriend that I was coming back so soon. Didn’t think it would matter yknow?
So I open the door, and I’m confused cause it’s dark as hell in the apartment. The lights were off so I couldn’t see all that well but I saw and heard 2 people on the floor. I turned the light on and lo and behold my boyfriend and his friend are making out. Both are clearly drunk as shit and didn’t even realize the lights were on at that point. I just froze. I didn’t know how to process what I was seeing.
I yelled at Jacob to get up and get out. Both of them jump up and immediately started trying to explain the situation but at that point I was crying and trying to block everything out. Jace grabbed his stuff and ran out to his car while my boyfriend was trying to hug and comfort me.
I pushed him away and locked myself in the bathroom. I heard him cussing and throwing stuff around, but eventually he slammed the front door and that’s how I knew he left.
I’m currently at a friends house. I’ve been bombarded with texts from Jacob threatening me if I dare tell anyone what happened. My friend already knows but it’s not like I was planning to tell everybody?
Now that I type this all out it sounds crazy. Don’t know if I’m looking for advice. Just need to get this out.