Being stalked by ex-bf and his wife
Hi hi just wanna ask whether it’s normal for my first bf (now an ex) and his wife to be viewing my social media. It’s been more than 15 years! S/he has been viewing my profile for many years – I only realised it recently. I recalled seeing s/he as a viewer on my different platforms including Fbook/Instagram and LinkedIn several times in the past, but we are not friends or connections. They are even living in different countries now. Only recently when I saw him/her viewing again that I realised it’s they have been doing that for so long.
I feel weirded out.
Please advice if anyone been through the same – either as the party being stalked or stalking. What’s the reason? I don’t even think of my ex anymore.
Here are what netizens think:
- To check whether u give birth one who looks like him or not
- There’s no tracking device to see who has viewed your Facebook / Instagram accounts. So I’m calling you out for this. Only LinkedIn lets you know who has viewed your profile. Somehow I get that feeling that it’s you who is stalking them but wrote a reverse situation to play victim. Lots of insane folks out there.
- How you know she’s stalking you, if you dun go look for it? You also got problem right…
- Just block them on all social media and online platform.
- Yes. His ex wife used to do that for many years. I just ignored it. That’s why I privatized all our accounts because I didn’t want her to come on there or send friend requests and be able to see what we were doing in life. I never discussed it with him either. I found it a waste of time esp when we were trying to build a family together. If it makes you uncomfortable just block all the accounts. That’s it. Keep your life as private as possible…
- Dont think viewing is wrong but if it makes u uncomfortable just delete/ block them