A girl shared how her boyfriend is unhappy with her still seeing and being friends with her former “friend with benefits” – she says that she “really don’t get it”.
Here is the story:
“Hi, I’m at wit’s end with my boyfriend.
I’m in my early 20s and I’ve been with him for a loyal 3 years. we’ve had our ups and downs but we have recently been arguing over one issue.
He has repeatedly asked me to cut ties with one of my longest guy friends. I’ve other guy friends too, but the only thing is that this particular guy was my first fwb back in my wilder days and the one I lost my V-card to.
I’ve known him for 8 years vs my boyfriends of only 3 years. I’ve been completely platonic with this guy even since before I’m met my bf.
I admit I was pretty promiscuous when I was younger and it took a while for my BF to get over that, but I really don’t get it, he’s just a friend now, and I dress modestly when I’m not with my bf.
I really dont understand what I’m doing wrong.
Is it really reasonable to be asked to cut ties with a friend? I’ve already done everything in my power to please him and gain his trust…”
Editor’s note: Girl if you “don’t get it” then you’re a lost cause.