How do I (26F) tell my boyfriend (25M) that I’m not attracted to him anymore?
My boyfriend and I have been dating almost 2 years. In the beginning of our relationship he was all over me, always touching me, kissing me, trying to be intimate.
Now, the intimacy between us is rare. Our bedroom activities have started to feel awkward and uncomfortable and forced.
He never kisses me, hugs me, tries to be close with me, anything. He chalks it all up to saying it’s not who he is and in the beginning it was just him “love bombing” me.
He says it has nothing to do with me and that he’s attracted to me and loves me, he’s just never been a loving or intimate person.
I’m at a loss with this. I’ve been craving touch and intimacy and passion and have found myself daydreaming about it with other people.
It grosses me out because he is the only person I want to be with, I just feel so unloved and unwanted.
It’s to the point where I’m losing my attraction towards him and our relationship. I don’t know how to talk to him about it to help him understand or even what to do.
I’m at a loss with what to do.