Me (25F) and my boyfriend (30M) got into a fight because he said he doesn’t want to hear about my emotional baggage
So I was a run away at 18 and I’ve been struggling and moving through things to build a life for myself.
Just recently I saw my dad just walking on the street and it triggered me for some reason and I came home crying my eyes out for the night.
My bf came home and said to me how I shouldn’t be talking like this, how I shouldn’t be acting like this because nobody cares, people will just laugh at me and my situation and that I should be stronger and work harder and then complained about how the dishes and laundry weren’t done.
This is my first relationship I’ve been in and I just want to know if this is normal what he said to me.
Netizens’ comments
- let me repeat it for the people in the back: Is this the way you WANT to be treated? Then who cares if it’s “normal”
- Not at all normal. Really sounds messed up.
- No, not normal. You should be able to expect him to be supportive.