Found out a guy I was dating was dating several other girls
Met this guy from a dating app. We decided to get together after a few meet ups and I literally fall in love with him.
Confessed to him and he said the same to me. We agreed that this will be a serious RS and promised not looking around anymore. I deleted the app thereafter.
During the RS, he refused to let me meet his parent and friends, he said this is between 2 of us, what’s the point of involving others? I thought okay maybe we need to be more stable before meeting each other friends and parents. He will always been busy and giving excuses not to meet. We can only meet once a week and I’m always the one initiating. I find it pretty weird and fishy.
So one day at his place, I noticed he was still using dating apps to chat with several girls at the same time, meet them, ask them to his place. He somehow will plans his days of the week well to meet different girls.
He used the same tricks and methods to fish those girls depends on what the girls want. If they are looking for serious RS, he will them that he is also looking for serious RS. If they are looking for causal then good for him, can just deal immediately.
He will called them pretty, sweetie, babe, etc. tells them they are the only one he want and only have them with all kinds of sweet words. In fact he only want to sleep with them and he don’t use protection at all despite the girls’ requests. I dunno why those girls okay with it?
The contents he chats with them are the same as how he talk to me as well.
I also notice he follows a lot of girls on IG.
We had a big fight over this and we broke off.
Are his behaviors normal or is he actually sick?
Why are girls nowadays looking for ons and fwb? Is this norm in this society now?
FYI: he’s totally not good looking.