Guy refuse to meet me irl but texts me everyday.
I’m F (25) and I met M (25) on tinder prior to covid in early Jan 2020 and we’ve been texting on snapchat for a while. Of course we sent naughty photos and videos. But we also have friendly normal texts here and there.
A few months after that I got into a serious relationship and I stopped talking to M for a while. But then after awhile we started texting on tele regularly until I cut him off cold turkey because I felt like I don’t wanna betray my bf. M knew that I have a bf but he kept talking to me. I just stopped.
when my relationship with my bf ended, M started texting me again and I felt so vulnerable and I needed someone to talk to so I texted him back.
We started off casual but then things got flirty. Nowadays we text almost daily but I will try to text him less and keep things platonic.
I have never met M but I feel like we have chemistry. But M is also reluctant to meet me irl due to his own reasons. I’ve suggested to meet a few times but he is always reluctant and give excuses.
I feel like he is stringing me along for the explicit photos and jack off material. He still texts me daily, asking about my day, sharing his day and stuff. I’ve asked before on his intentions and he said we are friends but I’m conflicted but I would like to know what y’all think
- is he into me or just here for the jack off material?
- should I maintain this or cut him off?
- Am I just stupid?
*oh ya also he is very reluctant to share details of himself like his phone number and stuff. Kinda sus. Am I just a simp ????