I have a certain type.
Doesn’t mean that I don’t like other boys but I tend to prefer boys who are my type. At least for now.
Two of the boys I have dated are my type and they had the same looks etc.
And because they were handsome, I tend to put them on a pedestal as well.
But I’m not pretty in any way. 6-7/10 at best. (not my personal rating but my siblings) 7 is personally stretching it imo
The other guys who used to like me and some whom I dated are handsome as well. But I find that the more handsome someone is, the higher likelihood of ghosting.
I have to admit I have ghosted in recent years as well so that may just be karma.
Friends and Family do keep me very fulfilled but I’ve always felt there’s a missing gap somewhere. I know I’m trying to reach the stars at this point but I haven’t had much luck dating in recent years.
And as I progress to the next stage of life, it becomes much tougher to find a suitable mate but I’m thankful I’m still young (mid-20s)
Advice/thoughts?
Here are what netizens think:
- The longer you stay single, your taste in men will likely evolve. Don’t be so fixated on looks and type. You have to be honest with yourself too. What do you have to offer? Are you gf material? Are you wife material? You may run the risk of staying single even longer if you are not sure of your strengths and weaknesses. And that will further decrease your chances of finding a mate.
- Unless you have fixed plans when to settle down, start a family, just enjoy the ride and work on being a better person than you are yesterday. You’re at your prime. This is the best time to travel, see the world and experience life.
- Everyone has their own individual value system. If you feel like your looks are not great enough to compete with other girls for the good looking guys you like, hopefully you have other things to offer and are willing to put in the effort. Some of those good looking guys aren’t just looking for looks.
- Someone can have a 10/10 look but a 1/10 character. You should focus on character more than looks, it’s just temporary. You would rather choose capable partner to have a good future together, or someone with 10/10 looks but cheats with others ? Or have many suitors because of the looks. Prioritise your options