Boyfriend’s female colleague keeps texting him after work.
I’m in a relationship with my 3 years boyfriend and we never really fought until 1 day I found out one of his female colleagues texts him a lot.
She likes to update him about what she eats today, what she is doing, her random thoughts AFTER WORKING HOURS. Sometimes she texts him late like 1-2am. They talk and text during work too. He claims they are just close friends at work and I overthink things. I have talked to him about how uncomfortable it made me feel so he replied less but she continued to text everyday after work still. He said he has to reply to all this nonsense to be polite to colleague at work so I don’t know what to do.
He also said he thinks she is attractive. Am I overthinking or is this girl damn weird since she knows very well he has a girlfriend?
Here are what netizens think:
- Just text her that after work is his private time with you and you are not comfortable with her msg to him. Ask her if she wants you to intro a bf to her. Sometimes this kind of people have to be direct to them. If you bf is fuious that u do that then you should is time to drop him. He is properly building the relationship, once stable then he will drop u.
- Meet the girl face to face to discuss. If the girl is single introduce your single friends to her
- If your bf respects you, he will draw the line. If he doesn’t, reserve your love for someone who will.
- 3 years is enough of a time to decide if you should continue this relationship. Also 3 years never fight doesn’t really mean it’s a good thing. Its likely there’s no stressors or both of you have been avoiding conflicts. Know your boundary and don’t be afraid to communicate it. If you’re afraid to even say it then what about after marriage because I can assure you there will be more tough topics to talk about. From the looks of it, it’s time to cast your net wider. A man who finds it hard to reject a woman is not a good husband material.