I told my partner he can sleep with someone else
So I’ve been with my current boyfriend for only a few months, it’s still a new relationship but my libido is not really high, i’m affectionate and love cuddles and kisses but intercourse doesn’t appeal to me,
I wouldn’t say I’m totally not interested in it, as occasionally I’ll be “in the mood” but that is honestly a once in a blue moon type occurrence.
last night i told my boyfriend if he really wanted, he could sleep with someone else. He went all funny about it and sort of stopped talking…
i said “I’m not interested in anyone else so i wouldn’t do the same, it’s for you. if you want to sleep with someone and you’re not getting it from me, go ahead, i give you 100% permission to sleep with someone else”
he asked if it was a one-time thing and i asked what he thought it should be, he didn’t answer and said he need to think about everything and he will talk to me tomorrow.
I’m wondering if what i said wasn’t appropriate or if it really upset him, i think he’s contemplating it, as if he didn’t want to he would of just laughed at the idea and said no.
I really didn’t mean to upset him