A netizen shared how his girlfriend doesn’t stay over at his place because she is afraid of him seeing her without her makeup.
Here is the story:
“I’ve been dating a wonderful person for 4 months now. My past relationships would sleep over at my place so I didn’t give much thought to it. But my current girlfriend never slept over though.
I asked her why and told me she doesn’t sleep over in relationships. I asked her about it around a month into dating again and she said it’s because she’s insecure about her “bare” face.
I don’t care about what she looks like with or without makeup because she’s beautiful in my eyes. I am seriously trying my best to understand.
It’s been three months now and she still refuses to sleep over.
It has also been affecting us hanging out on a day-to-day basis as well because she will not hang out with me on days if she is not wearing makeup.
Subsequently, I feel like our lives are very independent of each other and not naturally integrated.
Obviously, I wouldn’t want to force her to sleep over or make her feel bad but I think it’s an important part of any adult relationship.
How should I go about this situation? Should I ask her to talk to a therapist? Am I being too hard on her? Any advice is welcome thanks.”
Editor’s note: I guess just try to make her feel comfortable with you and hopefully things will get better.