GIRL DON’T CARE WHO PAY FOR 1ST DATE OR EAT WHERE, BUT GUY MUST EARN MIN $12K OR BYE

unpopular opinion here. as a girl, i think it is not necessary to a guy to pay for first date.

a first date can be at hawker centre. tbh, hawker centre and coffeeshop food represent good value for money. i dont think it is necessary to have a car too.

in fact no car equal no liabilities. public transport works great. wedding can be small scale. tbh nobody cares after the wedding.

that being said, a 12k monthly salary for a guy is a deal breaker, as this is min salary to enable the guy to get a 75% bank loan for a typical 900sqft condo at $2000 psf.

Netizens’ comments

1. While you are choosing people, people are also choosing you at the same time….
2. If he already can get loan all by himself, need you for what?
3. Apart from their private parts, what do women provide in a relationship?
4. Can eat cheap food and no car but need expensive house HAHAHAHA
5. Like a guy saying its normal for a him to do all the housework by himself without the woman doing anything. But also a deal breaker if she paid for the condo and hired a maid
6. Lol ask my ex-girlfriend her thoughts on us going dutch on our first date at a chicken rice stall
7. The question is not about what you want, the question is about what you can get. If all else is equal, and a man with options has to weigh between you and another woman. And you have the upfront difficult KPI to meet, you can be assured you will be placed lower on his priority list of commitment.
8. 12k means each of you earn 6k can liao. Most importantly partnership & common goals, babe. If partnership fails, he earn 12k also won’t fork out a single cent
9. You continue dreaming ok?