Discovering my boyfriend’s ex’s birthday suit pictures on his phone
Here is the story
Hey guys, I’m *name redacted* and I have something to share with you all.
So, I’ve been dating this guy Jack (not his real name) for a few months now and things have been going great between us.
We’ve been spending a lot of time together and I really felt like we were getting serious.
Yesterday, Jack left his phone at my place when he went to work, and I decided to be a good girlfriend and charge it up for him.
As I was scrolling through his photos to make sure everything was backed up, I stumbled upon something that made my heart sink – pictures of his ex-girlfriend’s birthday suit pictures.
I couldn’t believe what I was seeing. Jack had promised me that he was over his ex and that he had no contact with her anymore. But here were these pictures of her, completely wearing nothing and in provocative poses.
I felt sick to my stomach and my first instinct was to confront him right away. But then I started to second-guess myself. Maybe there was a perfectly reasonable explanation for why he still had these photos.
Maybe he had forgotten to delete them or maybe they were from a long time ago.
So, I decided to wait until he got home to talk to him about it. I tried my best to keep calm and not let my emotions get the best of me, but as soon as he walked through the door, I blurted out everything.
He claims he forgotten about the photos
He was shocked and embarrassed and tried to explain that he had forgotten about the photos and that they were from a long time ago. But I just couldn’t get over the fact that he still had them on his phone.
It made me feel like he was still holding onto something from his past.
We had a long and emotional conversation about trust and boundaries, and in the end, we decided to work through it together.
But it’s going to take some time for me to fully trust him again.
So, there you have it.
I wish I hadn’t found those photos, but at least now we can address the issue and hopefully move forward as a stronger couple.