I’m in my mid-20 (F) trying to find my next bf on dating apps…sometimes for casual fun.
On these apps I came across guys (mostly those who are dtf) who were up for the casual fun portion, and said that they are single but do not want rs.
Since I was looking for casual fun when talking to these guys, I didn’t care much when they said they didn’t want to get into rs. After a while of being fwbs/having casual hangouts, I found out (without them knowing that I did) that they were married, some even with kids, and having great rs with their wives. Of course, I broke things off with them once I found out but such high number of people cheating on dating apps makes me doubt the trust between couples…
I’m sure there are wives who cheat too so this is not limited to only guys. I’m not very experienced in the dating field and I’m not sure if this is the ugly side of romance/adult world. Just want to hear from everyone (especially married couples):
Do you get married with full trust in your partner that he/she won’t cheat? Or do you get married knowing that one of you may cheat but choose to ignore and not think about it?
Etc. Kind of scared to get married knowing I can’t fully trust any partners now..