I’ve been dating a guy for 4 years, right from the start we already decided that it’d dating for marriage.
So far our relationship has been quite stable. However, I found out that he talks shit about me to his friend- My annoying habits, what I do that he doesn’t like etc.
Initially, he was the one who said he doesn’t like people hanging dirty laundry outside, he wants to keep relationship issues private between us.
What’s more, he has an Instagram group of boys, where they would share photos of sexy girls, talking about them etc.
Also, if I don’t initiate hugs/kisses/intimacy, he won’t start either.
Honestly, I don’t know what to do or think. I’m a pretty timid person, I’m scared that if I ask him about any of these, we would break up and 4 years gone just like this.
Any suggestions help I guess?