My boyfriend cheated on me with at least 20-30 women.
I, (20F) have been dating my (now ex boyfriend 21M) for 7 months. Our relationships never been perfect but we recently talked through some of our issues. I genuinely was willing to look past so much that he did for the fact that I loved him.
We talked everything over and with the mindset of fixing us, we moved forward. Unfortunately, it didn’t last very long. He let me borrow a tablet for my schoolwork and after downloading an app so I could use my e-textbooks, it asked me to confirm his email. He had bought the textbook for me, so it was under his email.
I tapped on Gmail and it was surprisingly already open, where I then saw dozens of onlyfans notifications for upcoming expirations on his subscriptions.
This is the same guy who told me he couldn’t get me a gift he offered previously because he had to wait to be paid.
He paid for 30+ women’s photos and videos, all while we were dating. Personally I get men have needs and look at such things and don’t really have an issue with it, however in this case he was paying $20+ a subscription for these specific women’s photos.
Despite me telling him previously I was uncomfortable with paying money for these things. Free ones doesn’t usually bother me but to want this specific chick’s photos and videos and be willing to pay $50 for it? Ffs.
I decided f it, how much worse can it get? And checked his internet browser, he was auto-logged into onlyfans where I discovered he was chatting with 30+ women.
Honestly, instantly heartbroken. I’m still in a mixture of shock. I couldn’t even read through all the messages he had, there was still probably 20+ unopened. I know we only dated 7 months, but I recently met his family and we really started getting our relationship back on track.
Obviously when he came home I broke up with him, he denied doing anything at first but when I straight up told him what I knew he admitted to everything.
I don’t know how to go from this, It’s been probably 8 hours since the breakup and I’m still processing. I’ve got all these screenshots of some of the content in those messages with those women and I keep looking at it. It doesn’t feel like any of this was real.