My mom’s been cheating on my dad for 25 years.
They finally got a divorce this year, so my dad opened up to me about everything. When he first caught my mom cheating, he was preparing to leave her until she announced that she was pregnant with me.
I’m now an adult and I think I look enough like my dad to not want to pursue any DNA testing, and tbh I don’t want to know if I’m not his.
I’ve been truly sick ever since he told me the details. My dad’s father died last year, and he has phone records of my mom calling her guy for several hours the day his father died and the day of the funeral.
I want to say something because mom is now bringing this guy around, but dad knows my mom is vengeful and hostile and thinks it would be best for my safety if I don’t confront her.
But man, I feel so disgusted by her and sorry for my dad.
- You should confront her, you have every right. Your mom is the worst type of person, cheating alone, but also calling the man on the day of your grandfathers funeral, absolutely disgusting.
- I’m so sorry your mom is so toxic to you and your dad. Neither of you deserved any of that. That breaks my heart that she could be so cold and destructive to her family, for so long.