He(38m) has been my(29f) friend for quite some time now, and I met him a few months back, when I broke my leg and he was the doctor who did my surgery. We started speaking a few days after the surgery and I knew he was married, and I always kept my distance.
He told me one fine day that he wished I hugged him, and my immediate response was “one thing may lead to another…” Although I was hesitant, he told me one day how things weren’t going great with his wife(35f) how he’s been married to her for 2.5 yrs and they haven’t had ‘did it’ since their wedding night and how frustrating it feels to be avoided by wife.
He joked about how he’s been a virgin for 2.5 years and I laughed at him at first. The thing is I really am one. Fast forward the entire thing, we started meeting up outside, then he slowly started wanting me come to his place to give him company and sometimes a hug. Then he kissed me and I was really bothered. Didn’t express anything at the time.
However, a few weeks later, I started longing to see him again and this time kiss him. Goodness I tell you, the both of us managed not to ‘do it’ for at least 3 months and today it happened.
I met him, cuz he was upset I haven’t been visiting him and we kept having a fight over the phone , so I decided to just give him a hug and be back home immediately. Things didn’t go according to plan and now we both feel terrible besides the fact that I gave my first time to him, there was nothing interesting about the ‘deed’.
And it hurts because he was not very experienced as well.
I came back home and went to read an article on “what should a woman do if she slept with a married man” and it says “leave. For the sake of your sanity and self respect. He’s not going to leave his wife.”
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