I threw up on our date. Are we done?
I (22f) was invited on a date with my FWB (28m). I got way too drunk at the arcade. Needed to be carried to bed and was unable to stand because of how tipsy I was.
He helped me to the bathroom but I threw up all over the floor. He had to clean it up while I threw up in the toilet.
He put my hair in a rubberband for me. I then proceeded to get in his shower. He had to help me bathe and put me in pajamas because of how drunk I was.
He did everything right and was perfect, but hasn’t tried to hang out since that night or talk to me. It has been 10 days.
Did I ruin our relationship because of what happened?
- Wait, how did you get that drunk at an arcade though…?
- It probably just reminded him that you are still in your early twenties. You are still growing into the person you will be and he’s probably not willing to go down that road with you. It’s a great learning lesson to always eat before drinking and stop at two/three
And you don’t want to date your FWB anyways. More often then not, it doesn’t lead to the end game.
- I hoped you reached out and thanked him tremendously. It may be over but it may not be. Be straight up with him and ask him to hang out (not drinking this time)