I’m pregnant. The baby’s dad insists on doing a paternity test when the baby is out.
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Tbh I feel quite insulted because I have never played, never strayed, but this is the amount of trust that’s given just because of his own insecurities.
I was so speechless and mad when I hear that I threatened if the result is out and he’s indeed the dad, he shall not have anything to do with the baby.
I know it’s ridiculous cos I’ll need the support in the end so it doesn’t work that way…How will you feel as the girl?
Share your thoughts, maybe it’ll make me feel better…
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Netizens’ comments
- You are in the wrong. Your noticeable avoidance of using husband and wife terms indicates you are not married.You have the undeniable advantage as a woman of always knowing who your child is (hint, it comes out of you). He doesn’t.He is entitled to deny being the father unless you prove it with a paternity test. Fatherhood comes with heavy legal responsibilities. He is right to require the bare minimum of a paternity test.
- If the guy completely trusts you then he wouldn’t be making such a request. Could be because of your lifestyle or character that causes the lack of trust. He is entitled to the paternity test if you are not worth trusting. Do some self-reflection.
- You said “the baby’s dad”.
Well are you married to this guy or in a committed exclusive relationship?
He has every right to know if he is the biological father if you are expecting responsibility for the kid from him.
Maybe he has his own concerns about how you got pregnant – you said insecurities, so find out what those are – maybe he has some medical condition that makes it hard for him to get a girl pregnant and somehow you got pregnant? Some other trust issues between you and him?