Is it a red flag for a guy to constantly ask for free things?
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This guy (who’s interested in me) keeps asking me for things for free. I feel like he’s doing it just to start a conversation, but it is such a major turn off.
For example, if i’m having ice cream, he’ll say hey when are u gonna treat me to ice cream, or you wanna share that with me.
Or when I bought some socks he’ll say it’s nice and to give him a pair (so we can match).
He’s not rich, which I don’t have an issue with. But he seems to have no ambition and he keeps asking for things for free.
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Is this a red flag or should I give him a chance?
Netizens’ comments
- Buy him that ice cream. If he asks for an upgrade to chye png after, buy it for him also. And if he asks for a meal at a restaurant next, that’s when you dump him lor. For the price of an ice cream and chye png, you’ll have a clear answer alrdy.
- i may be wrong, but it could be his way of breaking the ice and starts a conversation going. He could be the shy type and not sure of how to find ways to continue to connect with u, except in finding things connected with u to say ba.
If he is really really a cheapo, he would have insisted on the items. But so far from the above, seems that he is saying everything in jest but didnt really make u do it.
If u like him enough, give him more time and observe further. If not, then just drop him since u never like him from the start, it seems. - The fact that he kept asking u for free stuffs just is not a good thing. Small things may get bigger overtime. Maybe hes content with what he have, some people stop striving for ambition cuz they have found their comfort zone. Think u guys are not matched as what u want is not what u expected
- Sibeh gianpng. What a turn off. Yes it’s definitely a red flag. Do NOT give him a chance. He’s gonna mooch off you every opportunity he gets.
- Ice cream nia, you got so stingy meh