I am a graduate, and currently evergreen I didn’t find love during my university days as I was focusing on my studies.
I was never into the idea of using a dating app but my friends had always been encouraging me to. I find it intimidating to meet and talk to a stranger whom I have never met. Upon my friends’ influence, I tried using it and I had a match with someone whom I thought we could have something more.
I finally mustered the courage to meet him in real life after talking for a month or so and guess what. He brought me to fast food restaurant on the first date and we went dutch. &
He then ghosted me after a few weeks. I am so done with dating app after this experience and simply do not know if I can ever find love. Please advice…
It is so so difficult for me to find love.
Here are what netizens think:
- Love isn’t something you can “find”. It will happen when it’s meant to happen. Of course, you can take steps to improve your odds of finding a suitable partner. Take care of yourself on all aspects, external grooming, shaping up a personality that people will find appealing and etc. And maybe most importantly, your attitude toward others. Nobody wants to hang around a person who gives off negative vibes.
- first of all, the venue wasn’t all that bad. What were you expecting, fine dining and free treat? these can come later when you have earning power no need to wait for a guy to provide. Be patient and open to dating different kinds of guys to broaden your mind and fine tune your expectations too.
- This is exactly how dating works. You’ll be rejected/ghosted time and time again until you find a partner that is compatible, in the meantime, you’ll be forced to become the best version of yourself, and not for anyone else. It’s better than not trying at all. Just beware of the tons of crap you’ll find on online apps
- It’s a dating app.. Not marriage app.. You match doesn’t mean you get married.. Things goes both ways..