Need help about marriage.
Okay, so, I’m not married yet. But I will be in few months. I’m together with my fiancé for 4 years now.
The issue is that I’m scared if I couldn’t cope with marriage. Basically, I’m way too comfortable being alone. I’ve been doing things all alone since I was a boy. Cooking alone, watching movies alone, eating out at a restaurant alone, go to the park alone, celebrate religious holiday alone, playing games alone, birthday celebration alone, study alone, shopping alone, go to fun fair alone, and the list goes on.
Yes I have various close friends where I sometimes do those activities mentioned with them, but not often. Yes, my fiancé sometimes joined in with me to do those activities mentioned, but not occasionally as she also has things of her own, plus I’m not married to her yet.
The reason why I do things alone cause I just want to have the freedom to do things on my own without waiting for someone to be free to do it with me. Nothing personal, really. If they’re free, then go ahead and join. If not, I’ll just do it all by myself.
I’m excited and nervous about marrying my fiancé. I love her and I want the best for us. It’s not really a huge issue, but, since I’m way too comfortable being alone, do you think I’ll slowly adapt to do things together with her all the time? Or is the reality of marriage different than what I imagined?
So yeah…please help me understand or suggest me anything good. Please no trolling. Thank you.