I overheard my brother in law and his brother joking about I could be a “stand in” for my sister when she gets too pregnant to be physical
For context I’m 16, sister is 25 and brother in law and his younger brother are 32&30.
My sister is 3 months pregnant. Yesterday we had a birthday party at my parents house for all of the april birthdays in the family. My brother in laws mother and his brother both have april birthdays so they were there as well along with some other members of BILs family.
I overheard my brother in law and his brother talking, I couldn’t see them but either way I heard them talking about how when my BILs best friends wife was pregnant she had to go on bed rest for months. And they were saying how much that would suck, they hope that doesn’t happen…and then his brother was like “can you imagine going without any action for that long” and my brother in law was like yeah that would really suck.
And this is where the really creepy part to me is…his brother was like “well worse comes to worse you can use Anna as her stand in, you’d never notice the difference” and I one thousand percent thought my BIL would tell him off or tell him to shut up or that it’s gross but he literally just laughed and said that the only way he’d notice is how much smaller my chest is since my sisters got bigger since she’s been pregnant.
I feel so grossed out, I want to tell my sister but don’t want to upset her bc she’s already super stressed with her pregnancy, I literally just went in my room and said I had a headache so I didn’t have to see anyone. I wanted to vent somewhere so here I am