A plus sized girl was at the gym when she overheard some men discussing if they should “invest” in her in case she looses weight.
Here is the story
I was at the gym. I had my headphones in but they weren’t turned on. I overheard this guy saying how they should get to know me and invest in me incase I loose weight. Wtf is wrong with people.
- There’s nothing wrong with the way I look now. I want to lose weight for me.
- Men need to realize just because they have muscles doesn’t mean they are attractive. Personality really goes a long way.
All of this makes me angry. I gained weight from a thyroid problem. I just want to lose weight so I can feel better. I really don’t want to hear this at a gym.
Edit. Thank you for everyone comments. I just wanted to clarify that I don’t just think men are soley the problem when it comes to this behavior. Some women display awful behavior too.
Also my thyroid problem I gained a lot a weight. I became a size 24. I’ve been working out and I’m down being a size 14. My goal is to get to a size 8 again. I overheard this today and I got angry at this. If someone doesn’t find me attractive that’s fine but I’m not an investment. Just leave me alone if you don’t find me attractive.
Also I go by pant size when losing weight. I think a number on the scale is bad to go by. Muscle weights more than fat and I don’t want to get focused on a number.