I just broke up with my bf a month ago and I think the issues can be resolved if we just talk to each other properly.
I have not talked to him in a while and wondered if I should reach out and be friends first to see if we can/should get back tgt.
Any opinions abt this? Are there stories where couples break up and get back tgt and have a stronger relationship?
Here are what netizens think:
No problem. Tell him clearly that it was a misunderstanding and you still feel for him. But be ready to accept his refusal, just in case he doesn’t want to mingle again or he already got someone.
So your plan is to trick him to thinking it’s ok to be friends before you decide if both of you can be together again? Instead of coming up with a deceitful plan to win him back, best you come clean and talk to him about your intent. IÂ rarely see people coming back together again this way. Usually they break up again. If not compatible from the start, its unlikely to work the 2nd time round even more so especially when you’re still young. Better to take it as a lesson, learn from it and move on.
Why limit your option to him?… The ocean is so big. Use your lesson learnt and find your better half.
Checkout how’s his current condition before reaching out. If he’s single or alr dating around. If he’s happier without u. If so, move on. Did u initiate the breakup or him? If it’s him who initiated n he did not contact u at all, the chances of reconciliation is low. When u reach out, be prepared for the coldness or no response which can hit your more painful. N even if he get back to u, u will prob just be an option while he’s looking for someone better.
It’s all about both parties wanting to work things out or not. To grow together, only understanding each other more, is to work things out and learn from each other.