A girl shared how her boyfriend is obsessed with K-pop girl groups and that she is jealous and thinks that they are only good-looking and not good at singing or dancing.
Here is the story:
“My boyfriend is sort of obsessed with K-pop. He likes the popular girl groups and is low-key obsessed over a few of the members.
Although I dont like k-pop, I respect his music preference.
However, recently I saw him watching dozens of videos on youtube zooming in and validating the beauty/popularity of his bias.
Also saw him liking and saving photos with those captions e.g most beautiful women in the world.
When I found his ‘secret stash’ of k-pop, he kinda freaked out and tried explaining how those just “likes” and don’t mean anything.
I tried asking why he liked those idols to the point of saving their photos and posts and he mentioned that the main reason is that they are pretty.
I also realize that the visuals of the group aren’t exactly strong in dancing/singing so it just feels very superficial to be so obsessed over idols just for their appearance.
The fact that some of them don’t exactly have a good rep for their personality/talent, yet he chooses to ignore and defend against those claims blindly.
Now I’m starting to wonder what his true feelings are towards me and if they are just as superficial as his obsession with these idols.
Also, isn’t it weird to constantly watch idols online and admire/save photos of them while you are currently attached?”
Editor’s note: Kpop only, not like he’s doing anything wrong, what are you overreacting for?
Images source: Screengrab from Blackpink YouTube, Unsplash