A girl shared her story about her best guy friend who is very close with him and she has to meet him few times a week and even kiss her once. Yet she emphasises that they are just friends until the wife found out.
Here is the story:
I have a best guy friend and he is always there for me and we can talk about anything under the sun. But is it wrong for us to want to talk every day, or meet a few times a week, go overseas/club/staycation alone, hang out till late morning at each other’s room or if I want to sit beside him during his wedding? We did kiss before in a club or talk like couples but we both know that we are just friends.
Just to clear all your doubts, I am a female. I asked the question because my best guy friend had to stop contacting me because the then-girlfriend, now wife did not like our closeness and she found out that my guy friend actually had feelings for me after a few years of marriage.
She was outraged when she knew about our secret staycation and wants him to stop contacting me. Anyway, she did not like it when they were dating already but I did not know about the feelings hence I always thought whatever we do is fine.
I insist on sitting beside him at his wedding as the session was for friends and his family wasn’t there. At first, the wife was strongly against it but in the end, as we insisted, I still sat beside him but he did not accompany me as he promised us he was so busy with other people and keep sticking with the bride.
The kiss was just one time in a club when they were dating. But why can’t friends be close and platonic? I don’t know why I had to lose my best friend.