I’ve never been in a relationship or lost my virginity solely because I’m embarrassed about my chest.
I’m 23f, and I’ve never hooked up, or went on a date, anything that leads to intimacy I’ve never done. Only based off of the fact I hate my chest and how it looks, I’ve been asked out 4 times in the past 2 weeks, all by guys I liked but I said no because I don’t want them to see.
I’ve never seen anyone with my body shape, and it’s easily hidden with the right style so nobody knows just how bad it is. In literally live in dresses and hoodies.
Kinda sucks but I’ve made peace with it, im just a little jealous of the people that don’t have embarrassing looking bodies, im even too embarrassed to describe the exact problems on here and it’s anonymous
It is interesting though someone said to me I had way to high standards, when in reality I’ve rejected everyone because I genuinely thought they were too good for me, and once they saw me unclothed they’d realize it lol so maybe a good think for anyone feeling sad about being rejected you have no clue why they said no!!!
Update: described my issue in the comments and someone sent a dm about “BRCA2 mutation” being related to this specific issue. and my mom passed from cancer when she was early 30s so I will take the advice and see a doctor. So that’s concerning, but I guess we will see!
Netizens’ comments
- I’m getting the sense that this is not about your body, but about deeper issues that prevent you from intimacy.
- It’s really not my place to say but personally I think you’re more worried about this then you should be. If someone truly likes you your breast won’t change that I promise you that. We all have something we don’t like about ourselves but we shouldn’t let that stop us from trying to get the best out of life that we can. Have fun, be safe and have a great night.
- Guys just like playing with them, regardless of how they look like. They pretty much don’t care if it looks like watermelon or peaches. Mine look like two hanging trash bags filled halfway with water. I’ve never had a complaint. Men aren’t that picky.
- Why not give a relationship a shot instead of thinking they’ll eventually leave you? You would definitely meet someone that’ll love you for you… Just give it a shot, go on a date