I can’t tolerate my friend who cancels plans last minute any longer
My boyfriend came over last minute. My parents ate having guests over. Shiiii I forgot I was working can we meet up 2 hours later?. Actually I’m hella tired can we do this tomorrow. Hey can my work friends come with us I completely forgot I was supposed to hang with them as well.
“It’s okay we can meet up next time❤” is my usual response.
Today was the last straw. this friend said she forgot and actually overlapped plans with other groups of friends after I got ready, cancelled a part time gig, and even got a rental car to go out. This is after two weeks of planning around heavy schedules. I left the friend on read and I just don’t want to be around someone who does thus all the time.
And when she does make it to plans she’s incredibly late and NEVER apologises for being late EVER, my other friends who are also mutuals with the always late friend said it’s normal for this person and that they just ignore it and let them come late to plans etc and I should just ‘go with the flow’ when it comes to this late friend.
Maybe I’m just someone whose overreacting and being dramatic but I just can’t understand how unaware someone can be! Like I literally go to hell and back to make sure I’m there always! If I’m ever running late I let you know before hand. Is it so hard for you to do the same? I feel disrespected like I’m not worth remembering. I’m so tired and over it. Rant over.