A Singaporean woman recently posted on Facebook after her mother was against her marrying a Punjabi man and she had to force her hand by lying to her mother that she was pregnant. Her mother went into a rage but toned down after realising that her daughter was pregnant.
Here is the full story.
Well Saturday was a hectic day for me. My mother found out about the ROM, cause the dressmakers ,called me and my mom picked up…
She confronted me about it ,so I quickly texted my fiancé.He came down and then again asked my mother for my hand in marriage, he asked my parents before only my dad said yes…
He tired to convince her ,but to no avail She instead flew into rage and went on about how its not a good pairing and began citing religious reasons .. To let her clam down my father ,and my fiancé and I left the house to go eat lunch Where we planned on what to do next… plan was to lie that I was pregnant Forward to today, Sunday…
My mother forced me to go to chruch with her So she and my old cell group began to tell me how bad of an idea it would be…. citing verses and other reasons they came up with .I left halfway through this ,and just said “well guys its my life “I cried as the a person I cared about went to this exent to break my relationship I went home and my dad and I began to pack my stuff ,mum came back and saw all my stuff packed about 70%I told her i was leaving ,my fiancé came and once again sought her permission and her blessings She said no …
My dad then told her in Chinese “we are going to have a grandchild soon “This shocked my mother and then she said we are lying etcI showed her a generic ultrasound picture ,that I got my gyane to friend send meAnd she was even more shocked she began shouting and then hit my stomach while saying “its impossible “…….
My ahma then began to scold her ,never seen my ahma like that but she was the most pissed My dad basically held mum down …I then went to my fiancé s home with most of my stuff Just few hours ago my dad and ahma and sister came They gave us thier blessings and my ahma and dad told him and I “We are all family now “My future MIL gifted me the traditional punjabi wedding dress ,my father was gifted a turban form my future father in law for our ,private wedding that we are having after ROM in a few days time .We had a late dinner …But I am sad Have I lost my mother….?I am happy and hurt at the same time But I see a new life ahead of me ,me and my love