How do you deal with obsessive future mother in law? My fiance and I have been engaged for almost a year already. Wah, my fiancé’s mother cannot let go of him at all, leh. Whatever we do, she also want to be involved. It’s really irritating, you know?
Before I was engaged to my fiancé, she was still very nice one hor. She gave us space and privacy. Now? She’s “obsessed” with my fiancé. Every time we want to go out also, must tell her where we going, when we coming back. Late a bit also keep texting and calling asking where we and if we are on the way back already. Like, why she need to know everything, right? We also need some privacy and space, leh. But she always want to know everything, like she cannot trust us to take care of ourselves. She doesn’t even do this to the younger sibling. She just let them be.
What the heck? Like why is my fiancé and me so special case sia?
Sometimes, I feel likes she’s competing with me for my fiancé’s attention. Whatever decision my fiancé makes, she will interfere and try to “brainwash” him a bit. I understand she’s his mother and all, but still, we are adults already, can make our own decisions, right?
She makes me lost respect, you know? You want respect, then you respect me first lah.