I (26) met a guy (24) Tinder and after chatting for a week, went out for coffee. It went well enough and a few days later I decided to meet at his place.
He immediately started kissing and grabbing my chest. I tried pulling away. At the time I was still into him but thought he was being “a little too horny”. So I told him as much.
He forced his hands down my pants and tried to pin me down. My fight or flight starts kicking in and I start pushing my knees into his chest. I grab his arms and start squeezing as hard as I can while asking again foe him to fucking stop.
He doesn’t so I use my legs and reverse pin him. I hold him down and tell him what he is doing is not okay snd that I want him to stop he laughs and starts squeezing my wrist. Like he thought we were playing and pulls me down to kiss him It’s bruised now and I just start screaming cause it hurt so bad and he wont let go.
He finally stops. Run to my phone and bag and run out to my car. He followed me to the door leading to parking garage.
When I got home I went to report him on Tinder. But he had unmatched me. I know his name but it might be fake. If he didn’t lie I know where he went to school and his work. He has my number and might know what my car looks like. Please what do I do. I feel so disgusting and stupid
Im sorry if this is upsetting but if I tell my parents they will call me stupid for meeting a man and I don’t I can go through reporting to the police. I was mugged/ molested on campus and the cops did nothing.