Met this guy a year ago through tinder, the photo that’s being used was a side profile one, height stated was 171 which is way shorter than my expectation, but since the chat on tinder and/or tele is not bad, I decided to give it a go and met up with him after chatting for less than a few days, to my horror, he look way different than his profile pic.
One day before meeting up, we didn’t text for a day and so I texted him in the evening to confirm if we are still meeting, he said yes and he’s glad that I texted him instead cause he didn’t want to double text me and look like a simp.
How’s that double texting when I responded to his goodnight but just so happen that the last text was by him? So yea after meeting up, I have never felt embarrassed to walk beside anyone before and I felt it, I cut it short by making an excuse that I need to go right after dinner.
What actually makes me go was that he can say it to me that everyone thinks that he looks way better in person than his picture, but unless his ‘everyone’ is his mom, I wouldn’t believe it.
I thought I made it clear that I have to go urgently and I even said I wanted to go to the herbal tea shop alone, yet he still follows me.
Guess what, after the dinner I didn’t text him, and he triple text me, what happens to not wanting to be a simp or whatever it is about not wanting to double text someone?
Here are what netizens think:
- Long story short, he wasn’t handsome enough for you right, sista? If you ghost him on text, he’s surely going to wonder why and text you to ask. Just find a nice way to reject him and say you are not feeling the connection.
- Since he dun wanna dbl text. He triple texted.
- Always always always ask for a picture…a selfie taken right there and then before the date, heck, even before u get the convo going. And don’t give BS such as beauty is in the eye of the beholder, just give chance first or whatnot. The act of swiping left or right based on how a person looks is already an act of superficiality by itself. Save everyone’s time….and ‘horror’ stories.
- Cucumber