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GIRL MOVING INTO FIANCE CONDO BUT THINKING IF SHOULD PAY ANYTHING

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In our early 30s, deeply in love. He’s moving out from his parents’ to his condo when TOP. He wants me to move in when the time comes

I have my own too but it’s rented out.

So what’s seemingly unromantic I feel is important to seek some opinion here… though I very much want to bring up witb him at a late time…

How should it be done when it comes to money, in all fairness? Though I think many would ask me to pay half for my share but his condo is not under my name… but I would like to contribute too.

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Adding my name to the house doesn’t make sense too as it would mean ABSD for me since I have a condo already

Netizens’ comments

  • Only pay half for utilities and daily expenses. Nothing else. If got conflict, dont move in.
  • Condo is his name, he should pay the loan fully. Other expenses should be halved because you’re both using the other stuff like food water electricity WiFi. And maybe just a bit more for him cos how would you feel if he rented his condo and kept the rent money for himself and staying in yours instead? Sometimes good to put yourself in your partner’s shoes.
  • Since he is paying the monthly installment as the house is solely his, u can offer to pay household expenses, utilities or even management fees
  • Whatever that both of you use in the house, share half the cost. And perhaps, be the one who contributes way more to groceries so that both parties can have a better quality of life?
  • You stated that he bought the condo and wanted u to move in with him. It’s he who want to buy it and invited u to stay for free, or a “hidden price” as a couple. He could have just buy his condo and not invite u over, at the same time still see each other right?
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