A girl shared how she is unhappy with her boyfriend for not putting in effort into their dates – he is either busy sleeping or taking her to places like fast-food restaurants.
Here is the story:
“How do I hint my boyfriend that he is not putting enough effort into planning dates?
We usually have our meals at the coffee shops around our neighborhood. He always says that he has nowhere that he wants to visit and tells me to think of something.
Even on my birthday this year, we had fast food near my place because he didn’t plan anything. Whenever we have small dates, I’m always the one thinking of where to go and what to eat.
I am honestly quite disappointed with him recently because nothing has changed even after I have voiced it out several times.
I’m not asking him to bring me to fancy restaurants or cafes. I’m happy enough to try out new hawker places with him and FYI, we go dutch.
Also most of the time when we meet, he is busy sleeping because he is tired after work (his body clock is super messed up).
I sacrifice my own free time and schedule meetups with friends on other days to spend time with him. Is it wrong of me to feel sh—y about this situation?”
Editor’s note: Give him a taste of his medicine.