I (21f) slept with my manager (26m) and now he ignores me completely in the office
Hey, so I recently went to a work event. I was only planning to go for around an hour or so and then leave as I’m a lot younger than my colleagues, we speak a lot at work however outside of work I couldn’t imagine hanging out with them.
I have been the youngest one at work for months and everyone at work are in their 30s-40s. Around 2 months ago they employed Jay as the manager I was pleasantly surprised when I first met him as he is young, good looking and very charming.
We got along really well but of course always remained professional in the workplace, sometimes a little bit of flirty banter would come from his side but I’d always laugh and brush it off.
Anyway, last week at this work event. I don’t think he had ever seen me without my work clothes on as he was saying how beautiful I looked and was flirting heavily with me the whole night.
After a few too many drinks, we decided to go to another bar at the end of the night, just us two. We were touching heavily and kissing a lot.
We then got back to his place and unsurprisingly ended up screwing each other’s brains out. We did it around 3-4 times and both fell straight to sleep afterwards.
In the morning, he tried it again but I said no, i needed to get home as I just wanted to shower and get in my own bed.
Fast forward to now being back in the office, I tried to go back and speak normally to him and he completely ignores me. I say hi to him and he walks straight past. I honestly have no idea what to do.