Since schooling days, I have more guy friends than girl friends because girl drama is just too much for me and guys are well just guys. They are simple and easy to talk to without having to think too much.
They are more direct and I like it because don’t need to mind my words
And they always say what they think and what they feel. No need to second guess. The only thing is when I keep hanging out with the same guy, people always think we are a couple and that is when the dynamics between my friend and I will start to change.
However the guy usually ends up catching feelings for me
I don’t catch any feelings but I can feel my guy friend will start to expect something more from me. And that’s exactly what I don’t want because I just want to hang out without any other distractions.
So when this happens, I’ll start to withdraw myself from this friend and move on to another.
My other friends say I’m very cb cos I’m like leading them on but wt-f I’m just trying to find a friend.
Is it my fault that they end up liking me and I don’t like them back?
Here are what netizens think
- I think you can just make it straight to any of your guy friends first before you all move on any further. Some guys will inevitably fall for a girl if they spend too much time together.
- I am like you, rather be closer to guys than girls. At least if the guy don’t like you or unhappy they will talk it out with you or show if on their faces. Most girls I know, no way they will do that.
- You have the right to make friends with anyone you want, don’t need bother what others think.
- Are you attractive? Maybe the guy close to you because hope behind can ‘F’ you.