I’ve been with my boyfriend for about 3 years. I am 4 months pregnant and we were both shocked but excited. The other day he went through my phone and found nothing. The week before he kept accusing me of cheating and I was confused because I’ve never cheated on him and considering I’m newly pregnant and focused on that. Cheat would be the last thing on my to do list….. later that day I snatched his phone ran and locked myself in the car and to my surprise he’s been cheating… for quite sometime… my entire pregnancy to be exact.
I am so enraged. I’ve been faithful took trips, loved, and did my part with this man…. and decided to keep our child… we made plans to move and begin a new life with our family but this has me putting on my running shoes. We talked and he admitted it and told me other things but I really have no idea what to do.
I want my family. I want my child to grow up in a 2 parent home with two loving parents. But I can’t get pass this although it’s been 3 days I literally have no trust for him. Should I save my family or walk on. I don’t want to be a single mom or have my child grow up without a father.
Here are what netizens said:
- Honestly, I would not be able to maintain a romantic relationship with someone who shows they have no respect for me (and as you said you have no trust in him). If anything, I would walk away while still trying to maintain a parental relationship for the sake of the child. Obviously this is different if you don’t have much of a support system but if you do I think it would be beneficial to lean on them for advice and to clear your head. Just remember being a “family” can still happen without you sacrificing your own mental wellbeing to stay with a man who violated your trust. He is still be the child’s father though he doesn’t have to be your boyfriend.
- I’m sorry you are going through this! No one can tell you what to do or what is right for you. There is always a reason for the cheating so if you look to stay together, that reason needs to be found and trust needs to be rebuilt All the best to you
- Im so sorry. My thoughts he was blaming you of cheating checking your phone for receipts. I think he looking for a way out this baby made it real for him. He Doesn’t deserve this family yet!! Right now take your time with this decision. Take a step back and look after ur health and the baby. Stress can hurt him/her. You want that baby to have a family. You can provide the love to ur baby separately. Dont allow yourself to be so disrecpted. Ask yourself can you live knowing his? Will u always question where he’s at? Will you check up on him? Is this how you want to live or do you want to focus on that precious bundle inside you. Will you ever trust him 100%? Good luck and congrats on the baby.