Can guys sense if you are attracted to them?
I just had a weird experience…I have been in a course for a month (now basically finished) and this week one of the guys closer to my age sat next to me
I was so preoccupied with the overload of the course that getting laid was the last thing on my mind…he is cute but I didn’t pay much attention to him before for around 1-3 weeks.
When he sat next to me and we talked and worked together I suddenly started having dirty thoughts about him and since then I have been having them (a few days).
We didn’t talk much before but I noticed some nervous body language around me but others were more friendly and engaged in more conversation while he minded his own business.
Idk if it is pheromones that causes sudden attraction out of nowhere or what?
Honestly I have no idea if he sensed it because a little later (2-3 days?) there was a girl around and they seemed close so as soon as I noticed he introduced her to me as his girlfriend. I had no idea he had one.
People introduce each other all the time and the environment is friendly and positive but I thought it seemed a odd coincidence lmao
I also noticed a little awkwardness but idk if it is me, sometimes he just hangs around us (me and other people but won’t talk too much).
I read some guys can sense it if a girl is somehow attracted physically.
Netizens’ comments
- Bro I’ve been married 4 years and sometimes I’m still not sure if my wife is attracted to me. We have children.
- I’m completely oblivious. A woman has to actually tell me.
- I’ve had this conversation recently with a longtime female friend. I’m 46 and don’t personally recall any time in which a woman has openly hit on me. So to answer your question, yes, we’re quite unaware of our surroundings on most days.
- You can tell a guy and he still wouldn’t know 50% of the time…