I am 31 years old and recently ROM-ed with my boyfriend of the past 4 years. anyways, we decided to consummate the marriage since we are now legally married.
it was my first time having S. well, i always expected it to be very pleasurable. however, it wasnt. and i didnt get to climax with him. and i guess i expected his d to be bigger, cos it is really very small (around 2 inches i think).
i really regret not havingS before marriage. before him, i have had a few other partners (all short flings that lasted less than a year). and whenever they suggested S, i always stuck to my principles that i wanted to keep my virginity till after i get married. this was even the reason i broke up with one of my previous partners.
im quite disappointed with my husband’s performance in the bedroom. if we had tried having S before this, perhaps i would have made a different choice as to whether to be with him forever. but other than that, he is a really nice to me, so i know i should not let such shallow things as S pleasure hinder our marriage. anyways, if i want to climax i can always just use a S toyor something… 🙁
i guess i always imagined life after marriage to be filled with pleasurable S. really wish i got to experience S with other men, so that at least i know how it is supposed to feel like with a normal sized d. but now if i were to have S with other men it would be considered adultery…
does anyone have any suggestions on positions to make S more enjoyable with a very small d? im quite sad…