A man called the fact that I wouldn’t date him ‘discrimination’
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‘Do I look like an equal opportunity employer to you?’ is what I wish I could have said. But I couldn’t, and we all know why.
Instead, I had to make myself small, stay ultra alert about my surroundings, and continuously enforce my boundaries, all whilst being terrified. (I was walking alone at night)
Girls and women, I just want you to know that ‘no’ means ‘no’. No matter who it’s from or whatever reason you may or may not have. No should be enough and it’s the end of a complete sentence.
“If a man says no, it’s the end of the discussion. When a woman says no, it’s the beginning of a negotiation.”
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Netizens’ comments
- Gross. Did he say why?? I guess I should just be able to get anyone and if not I’m being discriminated against? Make it make sense….
- He accused me of being classist and only dating ‘wealthier’ men. He also accused me of being spoiled, and for having certain physical preferences. It honestly didn’t make sense to me.
- Dating is inherently discriminatory, or at least should be. Wonder if he considers it discrimination to turn down dating women he considers unattractive 🤔